Thank you for sharing your experience, Mary Lynn xo and thanks to Kristina for capturing the bittersweet beauty in this article-interview.
I appreciate learning about other people's experiences because each one is singularly unique. I recognise and resonate with some similar moments, caring for Father. However, there were also multitudes of traumatic moments with less grace.
Yes, this interview came four years after the experiences it talks about--long enough to have lessened the acute memories of the multitudes of absolutely horrific moments that came between the moments of grace. These were also oh so real.
And in a way I can’t put into words, the unspeakable suffering intensified the moments of beauty and grace. I couldn’t really separate the two deep in the midst of the experience. Your ‘bittersweet’ comes close to saying it.
Yes! I've often said that caregiving involves seismic emotional amplitudes, we live through the greatest extremes, and hope the moments of calm between the swings can sustain us.
Victoria - I would like to interview you and write about these seismic emotional platitudes. I have certainly felt them. I think it helps to name them. Would you be willing to be interviewed?
Thank you for sharing your experience, Mary Lynn xo and thanks to Kristina for capturing the bittersweet beauty in this article-interview.
I appreciate learning about other people's experiences because each one is singularly unique. I recognise and resonate with some similar moments, caring for Father. However, there were also multitudes of traumatic moments with less grace.
Yes, this interview came four years after the experiences it talks about--long enough to have lessened the acute memories of the multitudes of absolutely horrific moments that came between the moments of grace. These were also oh so real.
And in a way I can’t put into words, the unspeakable suffering intensified the moments of beauty and grace. I couldn’t really separate the two deep in the midst of the experience. Your ‘bittersweet’ comes close to saying it.
Yes! I've often said that caregiving involves seismic emotional amplitudes, we live through the greatest extremes, and hope the moments of calm between the swings can sustain us.
Victoria - I would like to interview you and write about these seismic emotional platitudes. I have certainly felt them. I think it helps to name them. Would you be willing to be interviewed?
That's so true. Thank you, Victoria. The difficult moments must hold space with the sacred ones.